My grandfather died about 3-4 weeks ago. I saw him two more times before he passed. My one tia (aunt) refused to come where I live to the funeral...Nobody seemed to care that he was gone, especially his own kids. They told me they felt relieved that he was gone, that it was finally over. I met family I never knew I had, not that I'll likely ever see them again. Nothing else I can say, because I dont feel anything else.